The magic of making up with your ex-girlfriend is very much all about psychology. You have to play it the same way as if you were approaching a new girl you’d never met before.
It is important to agree with her that the break up was actually the best move (even though you obviously do not think so). This will make her think that you really don’t care as much as she though about her.
You do not want to send a volley of text messages directly after you’ve broken up. It is important to give her time and make it seem as though she isn’t on your mind 24/7 (all though that is most likely the case).
After about two weeks or so, you can write her a letter and explain to her that you think the breakup was best for the both of you. Tell her that you’re glad it happened because you now feel as though you have the freedom that you desired. Make sure you reiterate that you care about her very much and really enjoyed your time together, but finish by saying that you also believe the breakup gives the both of you more freedom.
You can definitely expect her to contact you back, but if she doesn’t, there are some other things you can do to try to win her back. Just read the tips on the rest of our site.